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Wednesday, May 5, 2010

The Strengths of a Multiracial Family

Often times the picture painted of the multiracial family is one replete of doom and gloom. Interracial couples entering into marriage are aware that they may face unique challenges that mono-racial couples do not experience. Racism continues to be alive and well in our nation and when it comes to miscegenation this seems to annoy some people at an even greater level. Interracial couples must also consider the impact ignorant views have on their children. They have to strengthen their families to ensure their children are prepared and empowered to deal with judgmental perceptions about their identity.

Despite the different challenges multiracial families may experience, the vast tales of the mixed race family
aren’t drenched with grim. Quite the contrary. There is great strength in the multiracial family and some of these strengths are:

  • Miscegenation helps to rid racial stereotypes of the individuals in the union
  • Parents of multiracial families are more like to teach diversity and how to treat people who are
    different from themselves.
  • Parents of multiracial children make greater effort to expose their children
    to both cultures and to preserve both heritages.

Miscegenation enables the couple to uproot racial misconceptions each person may have of the opposite race. Racial stereotypes are perpetuated because people refuse to venture out of their racial comfort zone to explore the point of views of other races. In a interracial marriage, it’s imperative that each person examine and dismantling inaccurate opinions in order to maintain a unified body. I am black and my husband is Caucasian. I can remember a time I made an inappropriate joke about Caucasians to my husband. I took it for granted that even though he is my husband, we are of different races and therefore he might not appreciate a joke about his race. I’ve made this same joke about Caucasians to my African American
friends and all of us enjoyed a hardy laugh......Click on this link to continue reading my guest post at MixedandHappy.com


Also a few weeks ago my family was featured over there! Check us out!

7 comments:

Liz said...

Thanks for sharing your family and your thoughts with the Mixed and Happy Community!

MOMSWEB said...

You've enlightened me! I also dropped by the blog to read the rest of the story.

Yvonne said...

What a beautiful family. You are truly blessed.

Amy said...

Thank you for this post. I shared it with my fiance and we both enjoyed it!

Margie said...

You are a beautiful family :) Thanks for sharing your first-hand thoughts on this complex issue.

Thanks also for giving voice to the mixed-race community. Although the individuals in my family are all single-racial, we as a family experience some of the same things you describe. It's really good to hear your thoughts, and those of your readers.

Kristina Brooke said...

I left a comment over on the post, but I just wanted to say here that I love your point of view and your honesty.

Rana said...

Great article and this is so true. I think it helps my kids that we have a lot of mixed raced couples with children also that we can get together with. It's good for them to know that there are other families like theirs that are out there that enjoy life and are happy.

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