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Friday, December 4, 2009

Sharing Heritage Helps Build Identity

Tiger's father (my ex-husband) is Israeli and as I have mentioned before, I am from Haiti. Since both of my kids comes from diverse racial and cultural backgrounds, I've tried over the years to incorporate aspects from both nationalities so that my children have a greater appreciation of their family lineage. Furthermore, because of globalization, I feel that it's good for children to be raised with a broader world view. It truly is an immense privilege to live in a country, like America, that is a flavorful melting pot of traditions and heritage. Furthermore, living in South Florida, a sort of ethnic mecca, has enabled me to raise my children with a global perspective.

Although, the Hubster is an all American meat and potatoes kind of guy, he supports my efforts to integrate diversity into our family. He has traveled abroad extensively, throughout his military career. Consequently, he may possess an even greater understanding of the necessity to raise Tiger and Tar to appreciate diversity.

The wonderful thing about my mini-me, Tiger, is that he has an enthusiasm and excitement about learning about other ways of life. He loves studying about different countries and is constantly sharing tidbits of what he's learned. He lights up when Disney's Pass the Plate comes on because it features foods from other countries and he's always eager to try to make them.

Tiger's father speaks both Arabic and Hebrew. Recently, he signed up Tiger to take Hebrew lessons. At first I thought the idea was a little inconvenient because Hebrew isn't as widely spoken as Arabic. Interestingly enough, last year the Hubster had mentioned that I should encourage Tiger's father to teach Tiger Arabic because there is such a great need for bilingual Arabic/English speakers in this country.

As a result, when Tiger's father told me he had signed him up for a language class I immediately assumed it would be Arabic. But no, his decision was for Hebrew. A couple of months ago, Tiger came home from school and thrust an Alef Bet chart into my hand and started reciting the characters. To say the least, I was impressed. He's taken a real interest in learning the language and I'm thrilled to see it.This experience of learning the language has also spawned his curiosity in the Israel and his family over there. Tiger's father shared with me that his brother recently traveled back to Israel and that Tiger was anxious write letters so he could show off his new found Hebrew talents. I. love. it. This is exactly why I feel so strongly to encourage my children to learn about their diverse background. It helps them feel closer and bonded with their heritage. Furthermore, I feel it helps them develop a stronger identity.

8 comments:

Execumama said...

That IS awesome, Ana! Isn't it incredible how children can take interest in things and then excel at them w/out much of a push from us? Tiger is already a citizen of the world, and I bet he can move on to Arabic w/out so much a a flinch! Will you be looking into Arabic lessons for him? Maybe doing the lessons simultaneously will be an advantage for him. So cool!

M said...

Passing thru & couldn't help but read your blog & post a comment. I agree with Execumama. I Just wanted to add that your son taking hebrew classed to learn the language is an excellent idea. It is really such a great advantage for him. The title of your blog is right on & so true.

Sweetydarling72 said...

I think that's WONDERFUL Ana! I think he is so lucky to have your support and such an enthusiasm for it. I wish I had done the same getting to know myJapanese grandmother's heritage. She's still alive but she is not as well. I would love to hear it from her directly but I guess I can just research it online. :)
And maybe your ex will also be able to teach Tiger Arabic as well! So he'll grow up tri-lingual. :)

Will you do the same for Tar?

alybean said...

What lucky children to have such a wealth of diversity and for you to encourage it.It's important for children to identify with their background and heritage and see how they are part of it.Good luck to Tiger I hope he realises what a lucky boy he is.

nicolettemedesign said...

Wow! That's so great! This is such a privelege.By the time he finishes highschool he can have total of four languages under his belt. The other great thing about it is, his father speaks the language and this will help him become more fluent. He's truly BLESSED & the possibilities are great!

Keya said...

I think that's so amazing. I wish I spoke another language.

Christie-The ChatterBox said...

This is absolutely fantastic! He probably has no idea what a "rich" person he really is with regard to his heritage! I hope when he's older, he will pass all of it on to his children. Good for you on embracing it all as well!

Believer said...

You're doing a great job at keeping the doors open to Tiger's heritage and lineage.

This will only give him a greater understanding of "who he is" when others his age are still searching.

Kudos to you!

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