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Monday, October 26, 2009

What's In A Name?

You are lazily strolling through blogosphere in search of a good read and happen upon a blog titled Our Black Children or A Jewish Mom's Blog or Tales of Married Latino Couples.** Would you stop and read the blog even if you aren't of the ethnic persuasion named in the blog title? Seriously, would you? Ha! Did I just put you on the spot or what, eh? Don't hold back, I'd love to hear your honest thoughts.

This topic has been surfacing quite a bit lately in blogdom and I have been a part of a few of the discussions. How the conversation even began was at a session at BlogHer. I didn't attend Blogher, but I was told about the conversation. It appears the topic was raised that some bloggers feel unwelcome to visit blogs that identify a race in the title. It is my understanding that it was implied that bloggers should refrain from doing this to avoid isolating their blogs. Of course, this made me wonder if these same people would equally feel unwelcome about pictures in headers that identify a race. Would they feel isolated by a weird ethnically named blog like, Quiskaeya (lol). Hey, just saying...

Fair is fair. If I'm going to put you on the spot then the least I can do is give you my honest thoughts. Before I do, let me address a question that I get emailed a lot. People want to know how to pronounce my blog name. It's pronounced kis-kay-ya. The pronunciation is simply but it looks very confusing.

Blogs with unusual ethnic names or names that target a specific race in my opinion are doing one of two things; and in some cases they maybe doing both. Firstly, they may be reaching out to a specific audience that can relate to the blog name or secondly, they are potentially making a connection to their background or past. In regards to my blog name, Quiskaeya, I was doing the latter. The name Quiskaeya has a personal and special meaning to me because of the history of this name. In this blog I talk often of my past, my family, my views and a lot of the things I cherish. I wanted to connect those things all under one name and hence, why decided on the name Quiskaeya.

All this being said, when I see a blog with a very specific name, particularly with a racial profile in the title, it is saying to me that the author of the blog is targeting people of that racial group. I don't see anything wrong with this. All of us like community, camaraderie, a place we can feel safe to express ourselves and a place we feel is home. Blogs have become that place for some people where they can find likeness and oneness. Therefore, naming a blog something very specific so that a blogger can reach the community they desire, is perfectly normal. We do this in everyday life. We join various groups, clubs, organization, etc all in an effort to surround ourselves with common people.

I agree that naming a blog in this manner does run the risk of isolating some people. I think it would be a bit nonsensical for the author of such a blog to wonder why bloggers that don't fit the profile might feel hesitant to join in on the discussions. Then again, if you are like me I enjoy reading blogs from varying point of views. A few of my favorite blogs are from bloggers from other races, cultures, countries, religions etc. Seeing life from another person's world view can be extremely eye-opening.

I think it comes down to why a person reads blogs. Are they traveling the blogworld to broaden their perspective and peak into another world they might not otherwise have exposure to? Or are they looking for their niche, their clique and the people who can "feel them"? Personally, I don't see either as being wrong. To each his own. Come at me folks, what say you?

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**Disclaimer: As far as I am aware there are no blogs by these names. If for any reason there are blogs by these names or at a later date some blogs are named the same names or similarly to the above referenced blog names, it was not my intention to speak specifically regarding these blogs.

9 comments:

JaelCustomDesigns said...

Popping in from SITS!
Great post, My blog name is very general even though it represents a meaning. My initials are J.L. however I spell it out Jael. (Biblical meaning- Wild She goat)

I'm a Graphic Designer so, I'm very random on my blog but, I share resources, recipes, my journey to mompreneurship and just random moments.

I'm all over the place! I work full time, am married and have four children. Being focused isn't one of my strong points. Lol!

I'm always multitasking and I'm actually more productive in a very chaotic atmosphere vs. a calm one.
Go figure...

blueviolet said...

Hi doll! I read blogs written by pretty much every type of person and I like it that way. However, using your examples of names, I admit unless they visited me first as an overture, I probably wouldn't go there. I would feel it was geared to something I don't necessarily fit in with, and that I wasn't welcome.

And I have been pronouncing your blog name correctly in my head! :)

Yvonne said...

Amazing post girlie!! My homeschooling blog name represents a meaning to me. Homegrown Mosaic encompasses what I'm trying to convey in my blog. I went back in forth with more ethnic names for my blog like: homeschooling while brown. Seriously it was between the two and I really resonated with Homegrown mosaic. Now the header of my blog it becomes obvious that this blog will be written from a black womans perspective. But, like Jael stated, I'm all over the place.

And to answer your question, I may visit an 'ethnic' site but if it doesn't speak to MY sensibilities then I'm out. Is that racial/ethnic profiling or personal preference? For me it's the latter.

Once again great topic.

Keya said...

I love reading ethnic blogs. My blog just has a general name.
Great post.

Believer said...

I have never considered a blog title as a sign for "off limits." If I have something to say, and want to, I do. Period.

My bloggy friends vary in ethnicity, faith, and age, which mirror my real life friends.

My blog title is general. However, I did add to the header to give a newbie quick insight on what to find there.

Chocolate Lover said...

I tend to agree with you. While such blog names can target specific groups, they can also target people interested in cultures and ethnicities that are different from their own. Why this is different from having a blog with a specific theme (e.g. wedding, motherhood, cooking) I don't know.
Thanks for stopping by my blog btw!

Petula said...

Interesting topic. I think that blog titles are specific to the blogger. I mean, when I read the title I assume it's a peek into their world and not a message that they only appeal to people like them. There are some sites/blogs where it's obvious it's based on readership and then there are some where their posts are regular everyday things that include a little culture and diversity knowledge and experience to share. (I'm sure that's a run-on sentence!)

I'm glad I popped over on this post though 'cause I was wondering about your blog name. I don't recall ever coming by your blog before. How rude of me!

Marty said...

Thanks for the explanation and why you named the blog Quiskaeya. I didn't know that was the name for Haiti. I learned something!

Stesha said...

People think my blog is named after coffee...it isn't!

Anyway, I read all types of blogs. If the content is great I keep going back!

Hugs and Mocha,
Stesha

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